Salsa Guy is really annoying me today. He always overplans things and doesn’t allow enough time to get places. I’ve warned him about this and he admits its a problem. YET when I suggest that he won’t make it on time he insists that he will. I’m just annoyed.

I had no idea until this morning that Salsa Guy is coming to LA today instead of tomorrow! I am currently rearranging my day’s responsibilities to get everything done in time!

I’m cranky because Salsa Guy and I haven’t seen eachother in almost 2 weeks. It just sucks because our phone calls are far and inbetween since we’re both so busy. It’s no one’s fault but I’m annoyed. However this weekend we will be going to Catalina Island, so at least that’s exciting.

Things are going GREAT. We have really progressed. We’ve discussed our relationship, the types of things we want and are excited about how things are going. Our two arguments that we’ve had have actually made us closer. :D

Overall, I’m very happy with how things are going with us.

-C

1. sense of humor

2. playful, fun personality (adventurous is a plus!)

3. respectful and kind

4. responsible

5. they have to like me for me

-C

Seriously, I just don’t ever want to be one of those annoying couples that posts kissy pictures and mushy posts all over the internet. I like sharing exciting, happy, and interesting things we do together but I don’t ever want to do a gag-worthy overload on PDA or my feelings about my man. It’s just too much and I really value my sense of privacy. That is all.

Just in case you don’t know what anon is referring to, here is the link.

This guy was a total selfish prick and I RARELY say negative things about ex’s. Most break ups are amicable for me. It’s really important to but with this guy it was so stupid and impossible.

He broke up with me and the next day called me crying to get back together. I questioned his motives and he was shocked I wouldn’t take him back. I told him I needed time to figure it out. Two days later, he re-re broke up with me saying that he actually didn’t want to get back together.

Basically I told him that with all that bullshit after the first break up, he ruined our chances of remaining friends. You can’t fuck with someone else’s heart like that without considering how it will affect them. But this guy didn’t care about that.

As far as our actual relationship, he pulled the 180 SO fast. We’d only been dating a few months and once he saw that I was into him, he changed.

Looking back on it…now… I see that it was pure immaturity. He just lacked in basic consideration for others, especially me.

However I wish him the best in life. Him breaking up with me was the best gift he could have ever given me!

-C

Ugh so yesterday Salsa guy and I got into another argument but it was different this time. I feel like we both got to say a lot of things that had been on our minds. I feel like we discussed a lot of relationship issues that hadn’t been spoken about. Of course, arguments suck but overall I thought we handled it pretty well. But he did say at one point: “yea, I think overanaylzing things is stupid.” And I’m over here thinking..”well it’s what I’m supposed to do for a living.” But I didn’t want to to pick another fight after we were finally getting over this one.

I’ve answered this question before!! Check it out HERE anon.

Best,

-C

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