Anonymous asked: Where do you get your self worth/confidence? I feel like I had an abundance of it, and I allowed my ex to take it away from me. I've felt so rejected and stripped of everything I once stood for. How do you keep reminding yourself of your worth? Do you have to work at it every day?
I want you to repeat after me:
I am freaking awesome. I am a foxy lady/stud muffin and NO ONE can make me feel inferior without my consent.
okay, so that’s quite the mouth-full. I think that it boils down to realizing that how we feel is in our own power. For some, it might be harder than for others, but ultimately it’s practice that makes perfect. If you remind yourself everyday of your worth, it’ll be easier to remember on the those really tough days, like right after a break-up. An easy way to work on this everyday is focus on things that make you feel great. Here are some things I do:
- wear some sexy panties
- pursue your goals and life dreams
- make a vision board with a collage of the life that I desire & deserve
- personal therapy
- get your nails done
- work out
- engage in hobbies that make you feel awesome
These are things I like to do, that make me feel happy, confident and awesome. You just have to find what makes you feel great. It takes time and effort, but remember that a break up does not make you any less of a person. You are still very much the amazing person you were prior to this break-up.