1. Desk arrived today. Dad and I assembled it. Yay!

    Desk arrived today. Dad and I assembled it. Yay!

  2. The Little sister is Not so Little

    My little sister is turning 21 in a week!!! I can’t believe it. On the bright side, I will always have a companion to go out with. But, I foresee a lot of drunken chaos with her.

    Wah! She ain’t so little.

  3. Watching Drop Dead Diva: Season Three, while I do some busy work.

    I have no shame. I love this show!

    Hugs to you all.

    Cheers,

    -C

  4. The Amazing Mug I just ordered.
Is it really sad that I’m excited about my new coffee mug?
Nah. I run off of caffeine, so it makes sense.
OH YEA! According to the reviews, it keeps coffee hot for like 5 hours. Can you say heck yes?!
Amazon! Hurry it up.

    The Amazing Mug I just ordered.

    Is it really sad that I’m excited about my new coffee mug?

    Nah. I run off of caffeine, so it makes sense.

    OH YEA! According to the reviews, it keeps coffee hot for like 5 hours. Can you say heck yes?!

    Amazon! Hurry it up.

  5. BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA.
Oh, Hagrid.

    BAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAA.

    Oh, Hagrid.

  6. ULTRA-FRUGAL-SCRIMPING-MODE

    Before graduate school starts I have a few extra costs to take care of. So I am going into:

                                 ULTRA-FRUGAL-SCRIMPING-MODE

    to pay these upcoming costs. I just purchased a legit coffee mug. I’m going to stop purchasing coffee everyday for $1.50 and start making my own. This is how serious I am about paying off my debt.

  7. Personal Pet Peeves

    1. unpaid debt on my credit card

    2. an unfinished book

    3. an unresolved conflict with friend/family

    4. last minute cancellations

    5. body shaming

    6. slut shaming

    7. computer viruses

    8. uneven eyebrow threading

    9. people who spit loogies in public

    10. when my sisters take my clothing without asking

  8. well another opinion wouldn't hurt lol. so i like this guy who is a friend...but the guy friend by the name D. has a girlfriend. Now I'm not forcing him to break up or forcing myself on to him or anything like that, but he has told me for the past 2 months he has been trying to break up with her but feels bad cause she doesn't has a place to live. and he also told me that he is interested in me and i do light up his day when he sees me. I can tell he's telling the truth, but it sucks so bad....

    Hello My Dear,

    I want to ask you a question:

    If you really cared & wanted to be with a man, wouldn’t you do what is necessary to be with him?

    I’m assuming the answer is yes.

    I think you know what I am getting at. Don’t ever settle for less. While this guy, D, may very well be in love with you, his actions need to match his words. I understand he may be in a difficult position but that doesn’t change how things should be done. He should respect you enough to handle his shit BEFORE coming at you.

    My question for him would be: What are your motives in telling my girl, immacountrystronggirl, that you are interested in her if you know your shitty situation? 

    What is he trying to get at? Honey, you go and you tell him. I care for you too, but until you handle your shit, I am not going to consider anything. I’m not down with complicated drama-for-your-mama situations. 

    And love, if he really cares for you, I promise you: He will find a way. 

  9. Awkward Wedding Rehearsal Moments

    Yesterday I was pretty nervous about the wedding rehearsal because the man of honor and I went on a date once. I hadn’t been interested but he had, so I had to kindly turn him down. That was three years ago so I was concerned that there would be some awkwardness. Which there was…

    I tried to be friendly and say hello but this guy had the HARDEST time looking me straight in the face. He’d look down when I would talk to him and he avoided conversing with me at all costs.

    So much for avoiding the awkward turtles. 

    Side Comment: He looks much cuter than he did three years ago. 

  10. Wedding is fast approaching

    I’m off to pick up my bridesmaid dress & head over to the wedding rehearsal. The wedding is on SATURDAY!!! AHHH! & “bachlorette party” on Friday night!

    This hadn’t dawned on me before but the man of honor & I went on a date one time, but I wasn’t interested. Hope it’s not awkward.

About me

Like most people in their twenties, I'm just trying to live my life and figure things out. I live in Los Angeles and I'm about to start graduate school.I'm here to share my adventures, ideas, thoughts...pretty much anything that crosses my mind <3
I really enjoy listening to people, helping them, and giving advice when I can. Don't hesitate to reach out. I give pretty good advice that I never apply in my own life. Maybe you'll actually benefit from it.

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